凯莉日记 第一季

凯莉身上有很多东西，她不是完美的，也并不会让人很喜欢，第二季的结束，她没有和sebastian离开，而是选择继续留在曼哈顿，也许我，就会做出和她相反的选择。她很自信，以至于她都没有意识到她自信的有点过分，变成了自私，每次看完一部剧，都会让人喜欢上女主，因为导演总会塑造出一个值得爱，值得瞩目的形象，我不知道为什么，看完这部剧之后，我一点都不喜欢凯莉，尽管我不能否认她的身上，有一些我值得学习的地方。比如，她很上进，她可以为了自己的梦想牺牲一切，包括她爱的sebastian，她爱的父亲，她的家，但这，真的合适吗？没有什么是对还是不对，我们只是一直在寻找适合自己和自己想要的生活，我甚至不知道自己想要的生活是什么，凯莉至少知道她的梦想是当一名作家，她有天赋，我不理解编剧想表达怎样的精神，也许，它不该只是随意讲述凯莉生活的一些场景，没有多少人可以幸运到一进入曼哈顿就遇到贵人，拉瑞萨，没人多少人可以幸运到让完美的sebastian爱的无法自拔，凯莉肯定有吸引他们的闪光点。凯莉对待朋友很真诚，但是从她对待maggie和Bennet的时候，是不是有点伪善了呢？maggie只不过在她和sebastian分手之后亲吻了一下，她就大发脾气，无法容忍，这更多的是她自己作的后果，虽然maggie作为凯莉的好朋友，这样做也不应该，但那时，他们已经分手了，是因为凯莉的神经稚，她在和sebastian分开后和那个作家发生关系的时候，也是她准备参加sebastian妈妈婚礼的时候，她的形象已经在我心中变的自私了。她说maggie 希望自己是朋友的中心，我觉得她自己才是，凯莉的形象塑造让我不能觉得苟同，反而是男主sebastian，让我觉得他是非常完美的。作为一名高富帅，他真的很难得，我想现实中应该不存在这么棒的人了。他真心的爱凯莉，尽管他和年纪大的女人共度夜晚，但是他从来没有想过伤害凯莉，他一直选择包容凯莉，理解凯莉，支持凯莉，每次凯莉回头的时候，sebastian总会在原地等她，凯莉自私的以为sebastian阻挡了自己前进的脚步，而选择对她写作事业有帮助的著名作家，sebastian痛心，但是他还是让她离开，去追求自己的梦，当得知maggie怀孕后，他作为朋友，给了她很多的关怀，甚至maggie父亲认为孩子是他的，对他拳脚相加的时候，他还是在考虑maggie的感受，而没有说出真相，总而言之，sebastian是个善良的人，美丽的人，他拥有正确的价值观，他需要，值得更好的女孩爱他。也因为每个人都是不同的，才会凸显个人的特别。我们没有权利评判别人什么，因为我们自己也不是最好的。

sometimes we have to fake it to make it.after a while,what's fake becomes truth

freedom of choice is what we want;freedom from choice is what we need.having choices, at first,feels exciting. after a while,it will be overwhelming.like we're trapped with no clear way out

they say that with knowledge comes power,so it's safe to assume the inverse is also true---with no knowledge comes vulnerability.
what we don't know about the people we love, or what we don't know about love,period,can be scary.but maybe that fear is ok.what is out there that is unkown can propel us to do more.

第一季里面有很多成长的故事，感觉很真实。。

但是感情的部分纯属在作了。。作死才是对的。。。好多和sebastian的情节都是为了分开而分开。。导致女主的个性非常不明显

大家说不好看的衣服什么的，我感觉放在现在也很漂亮，时尚就是复古吧。。喜欢大色块，款式什么的感觉娇小的女生可以学学，不是很显矮。。

继续看的动力就是很闲吧。。而且帅哥美女多

虽然剧情有点雷，不过每集日记里面的内容很经典，值得收录下来！
不定时更新在我的日记：http://www.douban.com/note/316206188/

【S01E02 】"Lie with me"

    They say that the eyes are the window to the soul, that looking into someone's eyes is to know the truth, to know what's real. The same could be said for the city that never sleeps. It's honest and totally awesome.

    Pinocchio（匹诺曹） was a puppet that wanted to be a real boy. All he had to do was be truthful, and his wish would come true. And even then, he couldn't help but lie.

    Doing the right thing is hard. Maybe because lying is often easier than the truth. And sometimes it actually gets what you want. But at some point, like Pinocchio's nose, the lies just keep growing until it's hard to tell what's real and what's not. And we can either live in that world of make-believe or face the truth and everything that comes with it.

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【S01E03】"Read before use"

    Let's face it. Life is easier if you read the labels, like "Do not put it in dryer" "Expiration date: one week ago". Everyting we wear, everything we eat--they all have labels. The same is true for everyone we know, "Stoner（酒鬼）" "Class clown" "Well-meaning but ultimately clueless guidance counselor" and "The boy of my deams".

    Now I knew what it said on Sebastion（人名）'s label--"Contents under pressure, handle with care". Unfortunately, I never bothered to read it. That's the tricky thing about labels.

    Once in a while, they tell us everything we need to know. But most of the time, it's only a very small part of the story. Slapping a word or two on a person can make things worse. In reality, nothing is ever as simple as the label we give it.

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【S01E04】"Fright Night"

    The scarest thing in high school: when someone breaks your heart, it's such a small place that you can't avoid them. It's ironic. The time in your life when you're least capable of managing your emotions is the same time you're locked up for eight hours a day with the people responsible for those emotions in the first place. It was like I was living in my own personal horror film--"The Rise of the Boy who Broke My Heart". And apparently it was playing everywhere.

    Valentine's day is about love. Christmas is about giving. Arbor day（植树节） is about trees, I guess. I get celebrating all those things, but Halloween? Halloween is a holiday where we put on costumes and try on different versions of ourselves--the princess, the demon（恶魔）, the bird flying free.

    It's fun not to be "us", and to not have to face the reality of who we really are and the things that scare us, like our vulnerabilities（脆弱）, or what we really want for ourselves, or our fear of change and what it will inevitably（必然地） bring. Being someone else for a night can be fun or scary. Either way, it's only one night, and when the masks are off and we're being ourselves again, we have nothing to hide behind, and maybe that's okey.

    But my night in Manhattan（曼哈顿） had taught me one thing: No matter what you're going through, it's always better if you have people to share it with. I was lucky, I wasn't an island at all.

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【S01E05】"Dangerous territory"

    When we think about entering new unchartered（未知的） territory, it always comes with the idea that we forge ahead. And that's true to some degree. But often to forge ahead, we have to look back to understand what we're leaving behind. And it can be scary because behind us, there are often blind spots--things we want to ignore or couldn't even see, that can stop us from our journey forward, but only if you let them.

    At some point, you have to let go of the past and stop looking behind and embrace what comes next. I was entering new territory, moving on, letting go of the old. My mom was right: Sometimes change is good.

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【S01E06】"endgame"

    When we focus too much on our endgame（结局）, we can miss the fun of the journey, we can miss the detour（绕道） that would take us somewhere even more rewarding.

    We like to set goals, because they give us a feeling of control. But control is an illusion, because sometimes the earth moves, and we have to deal with wherever we end up, whether it's on solid ground or not.

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【S01E07】"caught"

We all feel caught at some point or another between choices. As the Band Devo（退化乐队） said, "Freedom of chioce is what we want. Freedom from choice is what we need." Having choice, at first, feels exciting, but after a while it can also be overwhelming, like we're trapped with no clear way out. If you're lucky, you might find someone is there to catch you when you finally escape the web. But most of the time, it's harder.

Some people get caught between their secrets and wanting to do the right thing, while others are caught between their desires and their ambitions.

I was faced with tough decision, for sure. But I no longer felt caught between what I wanted and what my dad wanted. I realized this was my life, and I wasn't going to have any regrets.

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【S01E08】"hush hush" 保密

We all have secrets. when we're little, they start off innocent--A hiding place, a stash（藏匿处） of candy, a hush-hush crush. But as we get older, our secrets get bigger and better.

Often what we want, what we desire is something we keep deep inside of us. Something so dear and so special, it feels too scary to let it out into the open. It's our own little secret, and therefore, safe from harm. But maybe we have to let those secrets out in order to actually really live. The fallout from those secrets being revealed is often hard, or sometimes surprising and maybe even inevitable.

I wasn't given a choice, but I think I was relieved that all my secrets were out. And even though I was scared, I was also relieved not to have to hide my feelings anymore. It wasn't much, but it's a start.